
I went swimming yesterday at my local pool. While I was moving through the pool, I was thinking about how much I love water. I got an astrology reading in my early 20's and was told that almost all my signs are "fire" signs. I am not sure how water figures into that because water is supposed to "put fire out". All I know is that if I am near water or in water, I feel like a different woman. My problems disappear and I am renewed, refreshed and invigorated.
I tried to convince Michael to build a pool in our backyard, but he was concerned that children might drown in it and it would be too much effort to clean it. Those are both good points. During our remodel, we compromised on a 6 foot long bathtub with jets. The tub was always too short for me and and it was a thrill to finally have one that fit me.
It turns out that swimming in the neighborhood pool is social. Ken has decided to mentor me and is showing me better ways to move my body in the water. It makes sense to move my whole body and not just my arms and legs. I am looking forward to checking out the book he recommends--"Total Immersion".
When I was growing up, I had another mentor on the water. Almost very weekend, I went with American Youth Hostel (AYH) on canoe trips to the Ozarks. Canoes, to me, are so different than motor boats. They don't interfere with the beauty of nature, but flow along with it. And the rivers, oh the rivers. I loved everything about them.

The Buffalo River in northern Arkansas was my absolute favorite. It had just the right amount of rapids. They were not too strong, but just challenging enough to get that adrenalin going. I loved that feeling of making it around the rocks and getting through the rapids successfully. It also had beautiful slow sections where you could lie down in the canoe and enjoy the serenity of the river as you slowly slipped downstream. It had the perfect mixture of forest and gorgeous cliffs. My favorite part (this was in the 70's and 80's) is that it was far away from civilization and we rarely saw other people. There was a sense of spaciousness and isolation that I craved.
There was a man who seemed very old to me at the time--Orville-- who was my mentor. He was probably then the same age I am now. I felt like I had come as far as I could in the bow and wanted to learn how to steer in the stern, but no one else wanted to take the risk. Orville was so patient with me. He was willing to dodge branches and help navigate as much as he could in the bow around rocks until I learned. I will always love him for literally "risking life and limb" so I could learn. Because of him, I became quite a skilled canoeist and have a life long love affair with the caneoing on the river.
When I moved to Oregon, I taught Michael to canoe. He fell in love with the sport too. Unfortunately, the rivers in the West are more suited to rafting than canoeing. They just move too fast and are too big. Rafting is fun, but not the same as canoeing. The rivers that are smaller tend to be very slow. And, it is rare to find one where there is not a lot of civilization all around. We bought a canoe, though, and we still have it sitting on the side of the house.
There is a special place that I go when I am in or near a river. It brings me back to essence of who I am.
Waterfalls are especially close to my heart. One of my fantasies is to have a waterfall in my house. I know I would always feel joyful sitting next to it. My favorite thing with waterfalls is to sit in them.
This is Turner Falls in Oklahoma. When I drove across country from Missouri to Oregon looking for a teaching job, I discovered Turner Falls quite by accident. You cannot see all of it in this picture, but if you walk down the stream there are small waterfalls for about a mile. You can sit in them and let the water pour over you. The feeling is like none in this world.
I found a teaching job in Ashland, Oregon and moved out West and started a love affair with the ocean. Growing up in the middle of the country I had only seen the ocean a few times. Being able to go there whenever I want was enchanting.
There is scientific evidence that the air is actually different by the ocean. The negative ions fill your lungs and change the seratonin levels in your brain. I believe it. I can't imagine now ever leaving the ocean and being any farther than an hour or two drive away.
Michael and I got married in Ashland, Oregon and we paid for our own wedding. We had no money left for a decent honeymoon. For our twenty fifth anniversary, I wanted to have our "renewal of vows" ceremony and honeymoon of my dreams.


We hired an native Hawaiian Minister to blow the conch shell and bless us in Hawaiian. It sounded a lot like Hebrew. We were barefoot and got to be right there on the beach. We saw swimming turtles in the waves and we exchanged leis. We also renewed our vows and our love for each other. It was perfect. We spent two weeks there in Hawaii on the island of Kauai. They were two of the best weeks of my life. Michael is a geologist and a "land lubber". So, I checked out the land with him and he went on the water with me.


You can see the Hawaiian canoes with the double barrel design. That was a luau to raise money for the high school canoeing team. We all got to try out the canoes. We also kayaked down a beautiful stream. The last two pictures are on a boat out in the ocean. On our way to snorkeling, these dolphins followed our boat for most of the way. They jumped up and spun in dizzying circles. They exude such joy and delight!
This blog is a good reminder to me that being near or in the water is a sure way to feel good and I need to remember to do so more often.